He ONLY loves His children.
Ok, I'll go along with that. But, dear Peter Hussey, who are "His children"? How do we define that?
Well, I'd say "His children" are the 7th century BC Jews to whom he promised the covenant. Are you a direct descendant of a 7th century BC Jew, of Abraham? No? Oh dear, God doesn't love you, Jesus didn't die for you.
"Which Thou didst promise of old to Abraham and to his seed."
Get it? "His seed". That's not you. Have fun in Hell.