Your friend or his sister is a lying sack of shit.
Most, if not all, hospitals, if not prohibited by religious affiliation, provide abortions, and none of those abortions involve babies.
Most abortions just resembles heavy periods, since 89% of abortions are done by week 12, so there's nothing there to cry, just blood and specks of unrecognizable tissue, which is disposed of as medical waste, not dumped in trash cans, you idiot. No unviable fetus, even with twice that gestation time, would be anatomically capable of consciousness or feeling, let alone crying,
In medically-necessary late-term abortions, in states where women are lucky enough to have the right to save their own lives by going to one of the (two or four, can't remember) clinics in the whole fucking COUNTRY that will perform the surgery, the fetus is already dead or anesthetized and put out of its misery in utero, and again, no trash cans involved.