So 7-8 inches is absolutely necessary unless you're a Chad, in which case it isn't? What are these supernatural Chad abilities that achieve what you believe to be physically impossible? How in the world do you suppose the human race even perpetuates itself? How do you think you yourselves got here? Have you ever just sat and "people watched?" You see all kinds of couples of all manner of income, looks, dress and interests and in all kinds of combinations. Someone who didn't know him well asked me how a particular co-worker had managed such a "hot" wife (and a foreign one at that, despite not speaking her first language). Yes, he is overweight, geeky, and pretty introverted, but he is also dedicated, compassionate, sensitive and intellectually curious. I don't think she regrets being with him in the least!
I'm five years into being divorced. I never saw it coming and am admittedly frustrated to have had no serious relationships since then, but I'm not blaming genes, my parents, society or "Chad." I don't blame myself either. I showered my now ex with gifts, had a great job that allowed her to pursue her interests from home and yes, got her off regularly and in varied ways, for 20 years. The reality is that religion was deeply important to her and I lost all interest in it, plus I traveled a lot for work. So ultimately with that combination, she got involved with a guy at her church, because she spent more time there and thus with him than she did with me (his wife didn't attend that church either). I offered to quit or to find some other position but the seeds were already sown for an affair and it took both of them to continue it behind the backs of both families. So I'm a "cuck." My conscience is clear and I doubt hers ever will be. I'm also noticed that I'm much more able to pursue my own interests now instead of devoting all of my time to making her happy.
I assume these guys pleasure themselves, so they know there's nothing mystical about orgasm--both sexes and all genders are endowed by nature just like everyday bodily functions like eating, digesting and was elimination, but when it comes to the opposite sex, you do have to learn a little, both generally and about a particular person and not necessarily always go for what feels best for you at every moment. You also have to be the *type* of person she wants to be with, on a personality level for it to happen regularly. Despite what TV and movies would have you believe, it isn't going to be "out of the park" good the first time, especially if you're both inexperienced but probably even if you are--it's just an awkward thing to do that takes patience and practice, like most everything else to really be awesome for both parties most of the time. Looks will only get you so far and if you have any emotional depth, you're not going to be any more satisfied with serial one-night stands than you are being alone. "Chad," if he exists, is no happier than the perpetually single. Do all of those rock stars that kill themselves, either deliberately or with drugs look content to you?