A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with your or leave my wife for you or to have to be responsible to you in any sort of way because I'm just using your for my pleasures.
You can't (logically) 'force' someone to use birth control, since most types require a prescription and are to be taken over a period of time or require a doctor to administer (such as IUD or injection). If you're talking about condoms, well, its imperative that both parties mind their sexual health when hooking up. Women have sex drives and enjoy sex as much as men, strings or not. Stop generalizing. Not all women want the same damn things, and we're not sprogging machines. Stop tying women's worth to what's between their legs/in their womb.
No man would ADMIT to that because it would make him look bad and it would be "politically incorrect."
Wrong, no man would admit to being such a gigantic douchebag. That has been around since before the conception of political correctness.
Women lie and say they took the pill, or they poke a hole in a condom, in search of a chance for love and committment and all it breads in the end is abortion, hurt, loss, mental health issues and a self-perpetuating cyle: Men, when they find out that a baby's invovled pressure the woman into abortion , 'if you really love me', so the woman gives in (or leaves his sorry ass and ends up living in poverty trying to raise a child single-handedly).
This statement contradicts your first, in which you implied women are as thick as pig shit and need to be coerced into accepting contraception and sex. However, this is a disturbingly common anti-women's rights argument: that we're all conniving bitches out to trap poor blameless men, or we're innocent little virgins ripe for taking. Its a strange combination of paranoia and entitlement.
Men get sick and tired of the 'hassle' with women, so they turn to butt-fucking men so that the pleasure is felt and the job is done and there's no committment/clingy issues to deal with.
In the scenarios you describe, it is the man who as fault, yet you still blame the woman for the asswipe? I doubt that men automatically become gay because they've had bad experiences with women. They may try to hide homosexuality by having a straight relationship, but its not like flicking a goddamn light switch.
However, that type of behavior has hurt many man.
Physically and psychologically.
Adults are responsible for their own well-being, mental and physical. Stop pushing the blame onto women.
They want to get even, so they push for kids to learn about and be curious about gay activities.
They use them because they are looking for 'innocent love' and yet, all they end up doing is perpetuating a cycle of sickness, with more people hurt and confused in the process.
Homosexuals don't corrupt children, ffs. Grow up.