Quote# 40052

A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with your or leave my wife for you or to have to be responsible to you in any sort of way because I'm just using your for my pleasures. No man would ADMIT to that because it would make him look bad and it would be "politically incorrect."
Women lie and say they took the pill, or they poke a hole in a condom, in search of a chance for love and committment and all it breads in the end is abortion, hurt, loss, mental health issues and a self-perpetuating cyle: Men, when they find out that a baby's invovled pressure the woman into abortion , 'if you really love me', so the woman gives in (or leaves his sorry ass and ends up living in poverty trying to raise a child single-handedly).

Men get sick and tired of the 'hassle' with women, so they turn to butt-fucking men so that the pleasure is felt and the job is done and there's no committment/clingy issues to deal with.

However, that type of behavior has hurt many man.
Physically and psychologically.

They want to get even, so they push for kids to learn about and be curious about gay activities.
They use them because they are looking for 'innocent love' and yet, all they end up doing is perpetuating a cycle of sickness, with more people hurt and confused in the process.

joyfilled catholic, aol news 61 Comments [5/29/2008 4:25:43 PM]
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Empress

Wow. That is some serious word salad you got going on there! Congratulations; I'm lost.

5/29/2008 4:28:15 PM

OhHolyHell

Whoa, "joyfilled Catholic", huh? What a joyful, intelligent message. Thanks for speaking up. Should've maybe taken a Psychology course in school, or maybe Women's Studies, or Sociology. And maybe some serious bitter-no-more pills.

What a woman-bashing creep. Seriously, he managed to tie in all the typical Catholic psycho babble, isn't that amazing? Homosexuality, abortion, birth control, misogyny, welfare, butt fucking, warped views on medicine and psychology... this guy is like a walking proof of brain washing/the Catholic propaganda machine.

LMAO @ "joyfilled" Catholic. I think in all my years I wouldn't describe anyone who writes a hateful, pessimistic, skewed little rant like that as joyful in any way... other words come to mind though.

5/29/2008 4:30:55 PM

RavenWood

Bullsh*t word salad.

5/29/2008 4:33:19 PM

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A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with you

Exactly. You have babies when you're ready for them. Babies are human beings, and deserve to be brought up in loving, ready homes.

5/29/2008 4:34:51 PM

Mister Spak

"with more people hurt and confused in the process. "

It looks like the process got to you, because you are very confused.

5/29/2008 4:40:08 PM

GigaGuess

"Joyfilled" my hairy ass...

5/29/2008 4:54:46 PM

Berny

The Catholic Church's retarded stand on birth control is the first reason why I abandoned it.
People in committed relationships use birth control because they're not ready to have children. Should they not have sex except for the purpose of procreation? My wife and I didn't want 17 kids, like my grandmother. Two are plenty but neither one of us is ready for celibacy.
The rest of your rant is pure bullshit.

5/29/2008 4:55:21 PM

Jae

Wow! It's like my biography, except for the problems with contraception part, the fear of women part, the trauma part or the indoctrinating of children part. I leave them all to Christians.

Otherwise this describes me perfectly.

5/29/2008 4:57:00 PM

Eden

Men force women to use birth control?

You seem to assume all a woman wants is to get pregnant. YOu might be surprised that normally it is the woman who uses birth control at her own free will, because she isn´t ready for a child yet (or doesn´t want a child from this particular lover or doesn´t want a child at all).

Being a woman doesn´t equal to being a stupid birthing machine whose only desire is to get children as soon as possible ;)
(well, that is being a non fundamentalist woman; maybe it is different for fundamentalist women ;) )

5/29/2008 4:59:01 PM

Deep Search

This is filled with so much fail and 'wtf?'... I don't even know how to properly address it.

I do believe that men who do not want to have children use condoms/get vasectomies and then continue to have sex with women. I've never heard of gayness in men stemming from getting 'sick and tired of the hassle with women.' Nor have I heard that gay men seek to 'turn kids gay' out of bitterness toward women and because they want 'innocent love.' Seriously, what? At least this guy is getting creative, I guess... Birth Control = Teh Gay!

And for gawd's sake, 'true love' does not equal 'having a baby with someone.' There are plenty of couples who deeply love one another who want nothing to do with children. And there are plenty of couples that don't even like eachother who breed a small army.

5/29/2008 5:08:04 PM

Fanatic-Templar

Hey, I'd admit it. "I love you, but not enough to lose the next 19+ years of my life."

Those are the terms of the End User Agreement.

5/29/2008 5:27:08 PM

aaa

Trolling.

5/29/2008 5:27:52 PM



wow, you dont know anything about relationships OR homosexuality


might have something to do with all the homophobia and hatred you are filled with. and also the fact that you have never had a relationship and never will, because you think your imaginary friend will magic up a girl for you to fuck without any of those formalities like, you know, meeting her or building a relationship.




have fun with your wasted life, dumbass.

5/29/2008 5:32:36 PM

Pyroclasm

What the fuck are you blabbing about?

5/29/2008 5:42:57 PM

approximate

Breaded abortion? Doesn't sound very tasty.

5/29/2008 6:00:45 PM

Chamale

I voted 1 because this is taken out of context pretty badly from an otherwise reasonably sane post. Quote-mining is bad.

5/29/2008 6:10:23 PM

Garfield

that's a bleak picture of men you are painting there, joyfilled!

You know, women like to have sex just for fun. Not all of us want to be pregnant and pop out babies once a year - married or not doesn't matter!
I'm impressed that birth control will lead to homosexuality! WOW! What a leap!


5/29/2008 6:11:25 PM

IanC

"A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with your or leave my wife for you or to have to be responsible to you in any sort of way because I'm just using your for my pleasures."

Errr, how about the woman's pleasure? Oh wait of course women don't enjoy sex do they.

"Men get sick and tired of the 'hassle' with women, so they turn to butt-fucking men so that the pleasure is felt and the job is done and there's no committment/clingy issues to deal with."

Yeah, WTF? The men who are, as you out it "butt-fucking men" are gay or a bisexual man whos in a relationship with another man. Jeez, its not becuase they are "fed up with women"!



Also condoms arent just "birth control' they also help prevent the spread of STDs. Duh.

5/29/2008 6:14:29 PM

toothache

Joyfilled, my arse. Now I know why I gave up my Catholicism.

5/29/2008 6:30:18 PM

vampirehummingbird

"...all it breads in the end is abortion"

Wouldn´t breads in the end cause a yeast infection?

5/29/2008 6:47:18 PM

tmr

I don't think you've had enough sex to be able to speak from experience.

As a young adult, I regularly carried condoms. I kept them in my nightstand, my purse, my glove compartment.

And, I am a woman.

No one forced me to use birth control. I'm smart enough to know that if I want to make sure I am protected, I am responsible for myself. I was on the pill, too, by choice, before I ever even had sex.

No pregnancy. No STD's. And, a lot of it had to do with the fact that, as a woman, I took my health and future into my own hands.

When you actually have sex, you may learn a few things.

5/29/2008 6:53:21 PM

Azrael

Your priest is not a representative for homosexuals. Also I prefer skull fucking to butt fucking.

5/29/2008 7:01:08 PM

Princess Rot

A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with your or leave my wife for you or to have to be responsible to you in any sort of way because I'm just using your for my pleasures.

You can't (logically) 'force' someone to use birth control, since most types require a prescription and are to be taken over a period of time or require a doctor to administer (such as IUD or injection). If you're talking about condoms, well, its imperative that both parties mind their sexual health when hooking up. Women have sex drives and enjoy sex as much as men, strings or not. Stop generalizing. Not all women want the same damn things, and we're not sprogging machines. Stop tying women's worth to what's between their legs/in their womb.

No man would ADMIT to that because it would make him look bad and it would be "politically incorrect."

Wrong, no man would admit to being such a gigantic douchebag. That has been around since before the conception of political correctness.

Women lie and say they took the pill, or they poke a hole in a condom, in search of a chance for love and committment and all it breads in the end is abortion, hurt, loss, mental health issues and a self-perpetuating cyle: Men, when they find out that a baby's invovled pressure the woman into abortion , 'if you really love me', so the woman gives in (or leaves his sorry ass and ends up living in poverty trying to raise a child single-handedly).

This statement contradicts your first, in which you implied women are as thick as pig shit and need to be coerced into accepting contraception and sex. However, this is a disturbingly common anti-women's rights argument: that we're all conniving bitches out to trap poor blameless men, or we're innocent little virgins ripe for taking. Its a strange combination of paranoia and entitlement.

Men get sick and tired of the 'hassle' with women, so they turn to butt-fucking men so that the pleasure is felt and the job is done and there's no committment/clingy issues to deal with.

In the scenarios you describe, it is the man who as fault, yet you still blame the woman for the asswipe? I doubt that men automatically become gay because they've had bad experiences with women. They may try to hide homosexuality by having a straight relationship, but its not like flicking a goddamn light switch.

However, that type of behavior has hurt many man.
Physically and psychologically.


Adults are responsible for their own well-being, mental and physical. Stop pushing the blame onto women.

They want to get even, so they push for kids to learn about and be curious about gay activities.
They use them because they are looking for 'innocent love' and yet, all they end up doing is perpetuating a cycle of sickness, with more people hurt and confused in the process.


Homosexuals don't corrupt children, ffs. Grow up.

5/29/2008 7:13:12 PM

Sanity

Dude, i'm no psychiatrist, but you've got a seriously fucked up view of relationships and sex. Get some help. Seriously, get help.

A man uses a condom or forces the woman to use birth control because he's really saying, I love you, but not enough to have a baby with your or leave my wife for you or to have to be responsible to you in any sort of way because I'm just using your for my pleasures.
And here I thought that, when both sides agree to using a condom/pill it was more like "We really love eachother, so much we want to share this intimate experience, but we're not ready to take care of another human being.

5/29/2008 7:13:41 PM

Grigadil

How about that. Some people think fucking is an important social skill. If you want children, stop the contraception. It's that simple.

5/29/2008 7:26:24 PM

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