One weird thing I have noticed about women (yes, this will be a broad generalisation, but it happens all too frequently to not be thing) is that many have a complete inability to acknowledge the consequences of their actions, a disconnect of cause and effect. hence their confusion when they get blowback for whatever they do and say.

it's not just you, I think this is a general thing that has been brought about due to the way the education system and especially universities coddle them. In my opinion, it is less of a gender based thing and more of a class based thing, working class women don't have the time and can't afford to bitch about this stuff and behave this way. Middle/Upper class women however have been so coddled and never been told no or to shut up their whole lives.

Now they're slowly beginning to enter into the real world they've realised that the world doesn't revolve around them and worse. There are people who actually not only disagree with them but openly hate them. Well in their heads the only people who could possibly do that are misogynists and Nazis because those are the only types of people who would disagree with their beliefs.

I'm vividly reminded of a time when some working class waitress who got shit over being white while she was trying to do her job and it was some extremely privileged cunt from Oxford who had been indoctrinated into this shit. Just because he was black, he genuinely thought that she was still privileged despite the fact that he went to fucking Oxford.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/rhodes-must-fall-campaigner-ntokozo-qwabe-oxford-university-claims-cape-town-waitress-white-tears-a7037911.html

He said: "Even if she’s working class, she is linked to whiteness. By virtue of her skin colour, she is privileged.

Now this little incident is where it happened with a man so it's not necessarily gendered, but women I think are more likely to have this sort of mentality. When you understand the ideology though you realise as he states himself, he's black and she's white, therefore she has white privilege, her social status doesn't matter, it's the colour of her skin.

Hope this goes to some way explaining their racist and sexist way of thinking, these are people who come from extraordinarily rich backgrounds or are from communities that are largely cut off from the outside world and don't have to deal with the consequences of the policies they support.

In the world of anti-capitalists and feminists, a black millionaire is more of a victim than a white homeless man.