Some background info: My political ideology has radically shifted since 2016. I used to be a feminist and was a Bernie supporter before Trumps election. Everything started coming into question after after the DNC leaks. I have some knowledge about IA and networking, so it was impossible for me to buy into the Russia narrative. After the Pussy Hat marches after the election, I found that I could no longer call myself a feminist either because the behavior was appalling and I didn't think Trump warranted any of the hatred he was receiving. Fell into the Alt-lite Sargon/Peterson club, and continuously dug until redpilled on the JQ and essentially went full 1488. I don't even think women should be allowed to vote anymore.

My husband has always been a Moderate Republican. He's a great guy, really smart, but he's also very forgiving of people and is the type that just wants to get along. I've been trying to redpill him on various topics - he was receptive of the JQ but seems tired of my jokes. He's definitely more of a Civic Nationalist, and we've had long discussions on Race and IQ and why some cultures are worse than others due to IQ and evolution.

He doesn't buy that IQ is a proper measure of intelligence since culture can influence the outcome of the tests. He still thinks economics are at play when it comes to black vs white violent crime and poverty. He seems to not care very much if humanity becomes a mixed amorphous race, despite me arguing that the West will be dead, and Western culture erased.

He bought heavily into Peterson's Individualist propaganda and I can't convince him that in dire times collectivism is completely necessary.

I've made some ground on these topics but not nearly enough. I don't have enough resources to back up my arguments as I tend to forget to save the studies I stumble upon.

More background: My husband has a really sweet Black Aunt who treated him kindly during a really hard time in his life when nobody else would. He also has mixed cousins. I too really like his aunt, but I'm trying to get across averages of populations and their behaviors don't reflect her own (she genuinely acts really white).
I'm here to ask about what more I can say to convince him that Individualism is only feasible during times of peace and that we need to Collectivize during times of strife. Any resources on Race Realism would be incredibly valuable as well.