SarahC #sexist reddit.com

my girlfriend of a little over a year was raped 3 or 4 years before I met her. I didn't know for a while until she mentioned it to me once, and she explained that she was drugged at a party and raped. She knows who did it and never pressed charges or took any action against him because she was so ashamed.

I love her to death. I don't think any differently of her and the intimacy issues that come from her experience are minor enough for us to work through without any real problems. But god damn to I not want to find that son of a bitch and choke the life out of him with my bare hands, whispering her name into his ears so he remembers and realizes why he's dying by my hands.

This will probably get buried but it was kind of cathartic for me to get this out, I've never really talked to anyone about it.

She probably give him the "come on", while she was inhibited, then realised it was wrong, and decided to tell a lie instead of facing up to her own cheating.

Be careful - it happens more than you might think, and then some innocent bro gets a beating he didn't deserve.

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