How can you still want a long term relationship with a foid despite knowing their nature?

I often ask myself how a blackpill guy could still desire a long term commitment from a foid despite knowing a foid's true nature? How could you still trust her knowing that she doesn't want you, but instead wants chad? How could you be at ease knowing that the money you give her will somehow be reallocated to Chad? How can you still trust her when she tells you she's late at the office, but she's getting pumped by Chad? How could you peacefully raise your kids knowing that the rate of cuckolding is as high as 30%, and that it's most likely Chad's? How can you?

I only ask this because I see guys claiming that they want "romantic" relationships. Yet, these same people know that true love only belongs to Chad. A woman can't love a man for anything more than his utility. Chad has a physical utility. You don't. She can't physically love you. She can only love the stuff you do for her. That's why a woman will make sub-Chad males do stuff before she reciprocates even the slightest sexual interest. In the case of incels, she reciprocates nothing without an express and binding contract. Everything an incel does is transactional. So why then, despite knowing this grim reality do you continue to kid yourself about every being loved?