I personally find it insulting when I see a woman complain about being "lonely"
Like bitch you have all these niggas who'd give their left nut to be with you and I haven't even touched a girl's hand lmao
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Why do incels hate the idea of women being lonely so much? That there are girls who, at this very moment, are just lonely, longing as desperately for love, as you? I will never understand this. They really want to be miserable and mad from inescapable loneliness, don't they?
... and when you meet one, and open your mouth, she probably thinks, "well I am not that lonely", and leaves the room.
Norm
So, not that I fully agree with this dude.
But the biiiiiig sticking point, from an incel point of view, is less about not having love and more about the steps leading up to it. When most women are "lonely," they have false starts, they get laid, they have positive experiences to justify the feelings of loneliness and rejection when things don't work out.
Lonely dudes are completely lonely. No sex, no false starts. Obviously this ain't the case 100% of the time, but I can admit it's hard to be sympathetic when the closest I can get to a false start is getting a chick comfortable enough to ask for advice about fucking someone else.
@ Wayte
I can't speak from experience where sex is specifically concerned but I can tell you what it's like to be treated like an object. Several times in my life people I wanted to believe were friends - and even members of my family - would butter me up and try to make me feel included. But then I'd find it was strictly for another purpose and they'd cut me loose as soon as they stopped getting what they wanted. An advantage in a school project, later on organizational initiatives at work. A proxy to act as a second mouth in what started as a campaign against a fake charity that turned out to be nothing more than a personal spat, during which I was immediately treated like shit when I found out what was really going on. Money, brains, or nothing more than an accomplice. That's what they wanted, not a friend. In a room with people that tried to flatter me to get something and would clear out faster at the word no than rancid beer and chili farts I would never feel more completely alone. I was a thing in the room, a resource to be tapped, or at best a dog to be fed a treat if they did an amusing trick.
If sex is all you get out of a relationship and you feel half as bad as I did being used in ways that didn't involve giving my body over to someone who had no respect for me then believe me it's worse than being dateless. I didn't suffer half as much from "false starts" while I dated as I did from being led about - used - in more platonic relationships.
@#2056356
I couldn't really compare the two, probably the worst experience I had involved both those things. Fell for a chick, hard. First time I used the word love. So of course, she strung me along for years to help her own self esteem, then made sure to be as emasculating as possible when she got tired of me realizing I was getting a raw deal.
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