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Holding hands leads to an arm around the shoulder. An arm around the shoulder leads to an arm around the waist. An arm around the waist leads to kissing, which leads to petting, and so on. Among other lies, popular teaching today tells a teen to know when to stop, but the problem is that sexuality is a process that was never intended to stop. Trying to stop the sexual process only creates a greater desire to complete the process. This desire cannot be legitimately fulfilled outside of marriage and therefore leads to a temptation to sin, if not the sin itself. God’s plan is that the relationship be built on a solid foundation of trust and devotion that is demonstrated through the union of marriage.

But at what point has a sexual sin occurred? That really is the question, right? Since Jesus said in Matthew 5:28, “…whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart…” we must conclude that the sexual sin occurs when the illegitimate desire for physical contact occurs. Clearly Jesus’ statement in Matthew 5:28 applies to someone just looking at another person. If a sexual sin can occur just from looking at someone, it can also occur as a result of any physical contact. In fact, physical contact is a clear trigger for sexual desire. This is why Paul was inspired to write in 1 Corinthians 7:1 “…It is good for a man not to touch a woman.” However, just as physical contact is a trigger for sexual desire, it is also a means of fulfillment as well as an indication that the illegitimate desire is present. Paul further explains saying that every woman should have her own husband to avoid fornication. Have you ever wondered why, at a wedding, the preacher tells the groom, “You may now kiss your bride”? Paul has set the standard for us. There should be no physical contact between a dating couple before they are married.

During one summer, there were four teens in our youth group: two girls and two guys. Let’s call them Dan, Mark, Anne and Sue. Of course, these are not their real names. Both of the guys claimed to be called to preach, and demonstrated a keen ability to preach. Dan found out about a birthday gift that Sue was planning to give him – a kiss. Later that night, he asked for his birthday present and she gave it to him. A few minutes later, Anne and Dan sat in the back seat of a car watching Sue and Mark in a passionate embrace. Now several years later, three of the four have had illegitimate children, two of the four have already been married and divorced, three of the four have been heavily involved in drugs and alcohol. And one still struggles to this day with her walk with God. Was all of this the result of the one kiss? No, not completely, but the one kiss was a match dropped in a sea of gasoline that was the unrestrained emotions of four teenagers.

Bro. Randy, Net-4-Christ 27 Comments [5/17/2017 10:55:47 AM]
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Mister Spak

"Holding hands leads to an arm around the shoulder. An arm around the shoulder leads to an arm around the waist. An arm around the waist leads to kissing, which leads to petting, and so on."



5/17/2017 11:00:20 AM

Muchacho1994

You know how David always complains about how people want fundies silenced and all that?

This is an example of a fundie who needs to be silenced.

Randy, if you are reading this, you need to shut up. because nobody likes you. At all. You're a judgemental moron who won't let anyone have any fun or decide for themselves. We at FSTDT are completely apathetic toward your viewpoint and would prefer not to be controlled by a rabid "pastor". We are adults. You don't make decisions on how we date for us. We will do what we want. I hereby spit in your face and blaspheme your name, Randy. I hate you. I want you to die. So die.

5/17/2017 11:10:08 AM

Citizen Justin

"Was all of this the result of the one kiss?"

No it was the result of drivel like yours being foisted upon them.

5/17/2017 11:32:55 AM

checkmate

God’s plan


Really? say's who?

5/17/2017 12:19:18 PM

Kanna

Am I to assume that "brother" Randy is randy because of church-imposed celibacy? Or is he simply terrified of real passion? Yup, you and St. Paul.

5/17/2017 12:26:37 PM

LAchlan

"Trying to stop the sexual process only creates a greater desire to complete the process."
It's like he's only discovered ballsache.

5/17/2017 12:33:57 PM

Malingspann

"Paul has set the standard for us."

I thought Paul was just a man.

5/17/2017 1:01:39 PM

KrazyKat

"This desire cannot be legitimately fulfilled outside of marriage...."

Wanna bet?

5/17/2017 1:37:14 PM

dxdydz

Holding hands leads to an arm around the shoulder. An arm around the shoulder leads to an arm around the waist. An arm around the waist leads to kissing, which leads to petting, and so on.




Terrible.

5/17/2017 1:58:10 PM



Brother Randy never ceases to make me think he's a person who is behind the times to the point he's in Victorian times

5/17/2017 2:53:15 PM

Shepard Solus

Oh, blow it out your ass you lying douchefuck.

5/17/2017 3:12:48 PM

Philbert McAdamia

An arm around the shoulder leads to an arm around the waist.

Well, if you work it right a yawn/stretch can lead to a hand in the blouse.

5/17/2017 4:26:55 PM



@2053463

People from the Victorian Era would find this guy sexually oppressed.

5/17/2017 4:36:09 PM

Alencon

"Holding hands leads to an arm around the shoulder. An arm around the shoulder leads to an arm around the waist. An arm around the waist leads to kissing, which leads to petting, and so on."

Isn't that the way it's supposed to work?

5/17/2017 5:28:10 PM

Raspberry

Make Side Hugs Great Again

5/17/2017 7:09:08 PM

NeoMatrix

This is why Christians should not be allowed to breed.

5/17/2017 7:11:37 PM

rubber chicken

Holding hands leads to the slippery slope and next thing you know you're doing DVDA at a hobo bukkake party, apparently.

5/18/2017 12:00:46 AM

Swede

Are you describing your way of seducing the teenagers in your care, Randy Bro?

There are no laws against having sex outside of marriage, dearie. All consensual adult sex is legitimate.

If you have already sinned by just looking at her/him, then you can just as well go ahead, can't you? (As long as s/he consents, of course.)

If it's so dangerous to touch a woman, how come women and girls have been told, for centuries, to just ignore it when men touch them without consent? Only in the last couple of decades has it been OK to report harassments. Before that, the woman reporting was often more blamed than the man.

Do you also buy a car without test-driving it first? Buy clothes you have never tried on? You're supposed to be intimate with each other for life; what if you're not compatible in bed?

Using the phrase "Let's call them", shows us that they are not their real names, honey. Perhaps it went so bad for them, because they thought they were already doomed after that first kiss...?

Adam kissed Eve by the train before she jumped on it to go home after their date. 29 years later they are married to each other, no divorces, no illegitimate children, no problem with drugs or alcohol, no struggle with any walk with God (no walk with God at all, as a matter of fact). (Adam and Eve are not their real names, either.)

Aren't most adults "involved in alcohol"?

5/18/2017 1:22:08 AM

Skios

With posts like that I always get the feeling that the author wrote it with one hand under his desk.

5/18/2017 5:08:17 AM

Tricky Fox

....i'm having His4life flashbacks

5/18/2017 5:47:10 AM

Some Christian Anon

Someone is taking the joke about hand-holding being lewd way too seriously.

5/18/2017 6:53:07 AM

Musicalbookworm

You could just give teens birth control and let nature take it's course. You'll skip the guilt that drives people to drugs and the unplanned pregnancies.

5/18/2017 7:00:15 AM

KingOfRhye

This immediately made me think of Centorea from Monster Musume....;)



(cus she's a centaur girl who's only held weapons or things like that before)


5/18/2017 7:11:59 AM

Frogflayer

I was a high school loser, never made it with a lady
Till the boys told me something I missed
Then my next door neighbour with a daughter had a favour
Took me just a little kiss, like this

5/18/2017 7:16:40 AM

Frogflayer

If Sue was going to give Dan a birthday kiss why did Sue and Mark end up snogging. Bet that really pissed Dan off, on his birthday no less.

5/18/2017 7:19:53 AM

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