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Missing the point

Some of you are missing the Point. Sure it is possible to lose your virginity after 21 or even get into a relationship. But if you are doing it with an average female the chances of a equitable relationship are zero.

Let's say you 23 and never dated. Your girl is also 23 and has lead a normal existence. Not even slutting it up she would have double digit sex partners assuming she's lost her virginity at 17 and only had two partner she per year.

So you get in a relationship with her and she has all these experiences and you have none. Are you going to lie about it or tell the truth? She can probably tell anyway so you might as well tell the truth. But now she knows you're a loser- there IS A REASON YOU HAVENT HAD SEX BY 21.

Remember that the person who cares less in a relationship has the most power. If I have options I care less. That's the entire point. If I'm a girl with 50 guys in my phone who I could hit up at any time- why would I put up with any shit from a virgin? The only way that relationship works is if the virgin falls in line completely. This is how beta bucks are crafted and is the entire point of the post and this sub in general imho.

I think there should be a dramatic shift from trying to escape inceldom twords embracing it and becoming MGTOW.

Deane_, /r/incels 17 Comments [3/15/2017 7:53:27 AM]
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Shepard Solus

That's not "normal".

3/15/2017 7:59:48 AM

Philbert McAdamia

In a word; twords.

3/15/2017 8:03:49 AM


It's painful to see a stupid person who has no idea what he's talking about acting like he does.

Edit: Apparently I made it just under the wire because I lost my virginity just after I turned 20; and it was a, no pun intended, fucking terrible experience.

Claiming a woman knows whether or not a guy has had sex is almost as bad as the inhabitants of r/nofap and their belief that a woman can tell if a guy has spanked it recently.

3/15/2017 8:32:24 AM

rubber chicken

Just as a matter of interest, why should she put with any shit from anybody ?

3/15/2017 8:37:18 AM

Dizzy Dream

News flash for incels; there are just as many women who are still virgins after 21. Most women haven't had partners in the double digits, especially given that there is still plenty of slut shaming going on in today's society.

3/15/2017 8:41:03 AM

Happy Atheist

Most relationships, certainly all healthy relationships, don't give two shits about who has 'more power'. In a good relationship, in a healthy relationship, 'power' is equal and has little to do with sexual experience.

3/15/2017 8:49:16 AM


You are missing the point about a relationship. If everybody is keeping score like that, then it's just a notch on the bedpost, not a relationship. Try the old-fashioned way: get to know her first.

And if I want to know anything about women, I don't think an incel is the one I'd ask.

3/15/2017 9:10:07 AM


Yeah, treat a relationship like you would a pissing contest. No wonder you fuckoos can`t get shit done when your entire point of being with someone is to NOT CARE.

3/15/2017 9:33:50 AM


There is a reason why I lost my virginity at 16:


I was favoured at that time - perhaps by pure chance - by the school hotty.

Be eternally jelly, Deaniepoos. >:D

3/15/2017 9:50:39 AM


Incels - they live IN A WORLD where gaining sexual experience is the be-all and end-all of life.

3/15/2017 10:57:11 AM


Most women won't have more than four sexual partners in their lives, Dizzy.

Again, I think that these dipshits base what they think on the gym rat party girls they seem to lust after and despise in equal measure. And even then, I'm guessing that most of these women don't wake up with more than a hangover most of the time.

3/15/2017 11:59:52 AM

An "equitable" relationship to an incel is where a woman unconditionally surrenders themselves to the nearest man and acts like their life depends on satisfying their every whim and in exchange the man lets them live with them until they grow bored... and there is nothing resembling love to be seen because this is just a business arrangement to fill biological functions expected of humans and anyone saying otherwise is trying to trick you because there is no such thing as emotional fulfillment. The woman is to adhere to strict codes of behaviour and be punished mercilessly if she looks at another man or if a man looks at her but men are quite expected to have "needs" when the wife isn't around.

That's as about as fair a deal as being shot in the head at the end of a six month labour contract with three meals a week provided, so long as you don't act up in which case meals are rescinded and you're shot early. And the kicker is that incels don't think saying no is an option. To anyone.

3/15/2017 4:36:26 PM


I lost my virginity in my late 20s to a woman with a lot more experience than me. She knew what she was doing, and it was a lot of fun.

We split up later, but the thing I remember is that she felt guilty about being my first time because she felt like she was ruined. Probably because fucks like you. So go to hell, you abominable little bitch.

3/15/2017 5:20:19 PM


And there it is. The chain is complete from whiny teen asshole to idiotic adult asshole. The reasoning was already in place, just takes the right push...


You know, my desire to see these people snap out of it has limits... this is where one says "Fine. Be the miserable asshole you chose to be. Hopefully no one goes with you."


r/nofap is a thing? Why?

3/16/2017 6:29:34 AM

Doubting Thomas

Yes, if I were a virgin I would tell her. Why would she think I'm a loser if she's already interested in having sex with me? But my first time was at age 19 and it was the first time for both of us. But I wouldn't have cared if I was number "double digits."

I think it's amusing how these incels put such a high value on a woman's virginity but a low value on their own.

3/16/2017 6:52:16 AM


I think that r/nofap started with a noble purpose in mind, Azereaux; a support group for guys dealing with compulsive masturbation and porn addition but like Atheism, liking anime, men's rights (Ie. equal custody for fathers, removing the stigma from men reporting domestic abuse and sexual assault and health issues that men face like prostate cancer) and having an unrequited crush, it was ruined by a bunch of neckbeards who act like not having a little "alone time" gives them super powers and women can apparently tell if a guy has rubbed one out recently according to these dipshits as well.

If you're jerking off so often it's interfering with your life I can see why they would consider it a problem. These idiots act like so much as getting an erection is horrible, let alone jacking off every couple of days.

Besides, there's evidence that rubbing one out every couple of days can cut your risk of prostate cancer.

3/16/2017 7:36:30 AM

Shepard Solus

Presumably because they don't have anything better to do.

3/16/2017 10:57:37 AM

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