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I was trying to come up with something witty to say, but it's just more drivel from the world's most useless collection of inbred chimps. As a friend just noted, r/incels is clearly where Internet trolls go to die.
Oh, so many mistakes here - Incels giving advice to other Incels. This cannot end well.
Most women do not like "hypermasculine, misogynistic" bullies. That would be like inviting an unwashed caveman home for dinner, one of the "eat, belch, fuck, and run" type. No thanks.
That doesn't mean that most of us go for "men who act like feminine pussies". The ones that interest most of us are NORMAL men, and if those normal men can behave themselves like gentlemen when they are around women, so much the better. That "feminine pussy" type of man is just another fringe of the strange-behavior spectrum, and I'm sure they will appeal to someone, but not me.
Most importantly, we feminists define ourselves by our OWN actions and assets, NOT BY OUR CHOICE OF MEN, you ignorant boob. We don't want to have to mother you and pander to your insecurities. We don't want to be a slave of anyone. We don't want to have to house-train you. We want to live a full and interesting life, with or without a man in the house, so if you want in on this, I think you better work on growing up and behaving yourself.
That last guy, you can be forgiven for thinking he's fake. Before the Gamergates opened, I had only ever seen that type shown in fiction, as an extreme fetish trope and villain protagonists for gore-snuff comics by folks that set off my "Jack the Ripper alarm." Now that I know they are real, and one killed people, my favorite websites become a horror show crossed with a side show. I have to genuinely wonder if some of the "It's a prank fetish, bro" types need their crawlspaces examined.
Well, in order:
-The most feminist woman I personally know goes for smart types. Doctors, lawyers, and professors. They've been a varied lot. Only one was the "hypermasculine" type, and he got dumped right quick
-I shun what you would likely define as "traditional" masculinity. I only had trouble dating in conservative Christian circles.
-I...you're just creepy.
Yea, traditional masculinity... The idea to refuse any assistance even when plainly necessary, treat emotions and externalisation of them as a weakness, instead of as passing valuable information to your partner, prioritising blind aggresion and competition over cooperation, no matter the circumstances. Yup, I want none of this in my man.
Sure hubbz has to rein me in sometimes, me being the passionate bitch that I am but he does it by challenging my ideas through a logical discourse(turns out many "Chads" are actually intelligent, emphatic and thoughtful guys when they`re not pressured to constantly have their dudebro faces on, it`s called "girls shouldn`t be smart" but it so does apply to social guys like little else), making me see reason instead of fueling me by aggresively trying to establish some absolute authority. Trying to control me through force is the most idiotic action a person can attempt, I`m an empathic sponge, every emotion I receive, I can and most likely will reciprocate twice as strong, good luck subjugating my blonde ass.
On the other hand, I will always calm down and talk if asked to and wish to have everything explained if possible. As you can see I`m not compatibile in the slightest with your traditional model and this is on account of the mental traits, so the one that only matters to me in the end.
What/how do we find these men? I find them pathetic, insecure, stupid. Oh, and most feminists are not against men, we just want to have the same rights as men take for granted.
What's wrong with feminine pussies? Are you gay?
I want a tall guy in black pants who's interested in horror movies and music. And, what do you know; my husband of nigh on 30 years is a tall guy who usually wears black pants and likes horror movies and music. He's masculine enough for me; he can use power tools if he has to, is an engineer so he knows how to count, but he leaves the assembly of furniture to me, as I'm the logistic one and am good at interpreting assembly instructions.
What we want men to shun is not traditional masculinity, but brainless chauvinist bullying. This behavior is abhorrent to most women.
What's a trash species? Rednecks? Trumpettes?
YOU are the one thinking women OUGHT TO be depending on men, you dense nincompoop.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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