Another lie. Great.
You are not a freak if you haven't kissed someone by [enter completely subjective age here].
You're not a freak if you're socially awkward either; it's simply part of your constitution, which means you have to find a partner with a complementary constitution. It's worth it to look even if it takes you 'til your 60s (as it did with Christian author Nancy DeMoss, who married for the first time in her 60s and was single her entire life before that). There aren't too many ways I'd recommend DeMoss as a role model, but she had the right idea when it came to this, absolutely: Wait for who you want. Some people are so terribly mismatched they'd ave been better off had they never kissed so-and-so at 15 and married four years later (etc.). Others are well matched that meet young, but marriages made of older people who are not previously married and divorced actually stand far stronger and longer than marriages made among the young.
Why do I speak of marriage when incels spend most time talking about cheap dates? Because most incels know they don't really want cheap dates. That's why prostitutes "don't count." They want long-term relationships with people who love them for who they actually are, and not for whatever they pretend to be online or while clubbing. But mix those younger ones with embittered divorcees (who, as I mentioned before, would have been better off had they never married) and one gets the toxic incel subculture.
Seriously, incels that drift over here and read this: These men are either lying to you or they themselves are deluded. Either way, they're wrong - about your prospects, about how to find women, about how women think, about anything concerning women apparently.
First, learn to be happy with your own company. If you can't stand yourself, how the hell can anyone else? Then, since a lot of you seem to want a step-by-step guide on a trail that always changes depending on the hiker...then you should be self-contained enough to realise you'd rather be alone than with someone who makes you miserable. That leaves you with options: 1) You could stay in the incel echo chamber and commiserate with all the old failures (including perhaps your own). 2) You could build your life.
