Quote# 115637

I could never knowingly date a woman who was not a virgin. I find them disgusting. I don't find married women or women who have boyfriends disgusting because I don't think about them that way, but when it's time to actually date someone, I would never be with a woman if she was not a virgin.

Years ago when I first started analyzing this I thought it was only the "slutty" women I didn't like, but no, it's the sex act itself. That someone else has been inside my girlfriend or wife... I don't understand how anyone can live with that thought. I see an extremely vivid image of that happening in my mind and I feel such disgust I can't live with it.

I'm not religious and I have no moral objection to any of this stuff. I simply find it disgusting. I just don't want to believe that no women that I (initially) like are romantic or strong-willed enough to wait for the right man.

This way of thinking seems very rare in Western countries. Some may say they prefer a virgin, but are too realistic to completely shut non-virgins out of their dating life. So, any thoughts? Do you know anyone like me? Have you ever met a woman who thinks this way? I sure haven't.

Puffi, INTJForum 36 Comments [1/14/2016 3:50:20 PM]
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Stop after seven words, means the same.

1/14/2016 4:42:29 PM


You haven't really thought this through. If non-virgins bother you, I beg you not to consider married life.

1/14/2016 5:01:21 PM

Happy Atheist

The problem, Mr Puffi, is that if all the girls you like wait for the right man, you will inevitably end up alone.

1/14/2016 5:09:13 PM

Old Viking

Pssst! Puffi. Your fly is open.

1/14/2016 5:59:07 PM

Thinking Allowed

At least puffy is being honest.

1/14/2016 6:31:38 PM


This is just sad.

That someone else has been inside my girlfriend or wife... I don't understand how anyone can live with that thought. I see an extremely vivid image of that happening in my mind and I feel such disgust I can't live with it.

Normal people don't spend that much time obsessing over that thought enough to ruin relationships. I wonder how much this guy looks at cuckold porn? Probably as much as the fundies in the Bible Belt are looking at gay porn.

1/14/2016 6:50:57 PM

The Watcher

Dude. You are the living embodiment of the Madonna/Whore complex.

1/14/2016 9:09:13 PM


Someone has serious mental issues they need to work on....

1/14/2016 9:30:15 PM


To be fair, you should make sure you only date women who haven't had any dental or surgical procedures. Once someone's fingers have been in her body, surely you're repulsed and disgusted, right? Might I suggest Debbie the Blow-up? I hope the two of you have a long and happy life together. Frankly, it's about your only hope.

1/14/2016 10:47:16 PM


The poor man has been born in the wrong age and geographical position. I guess he could still move to Saudi Arabia.

1/14/2016 11:20:25 PM

rubber chicken

How do you intend finding this out ? It doesn't seem like a rational question to ask during that awkward first date.

Hi! What's your sign ? What's your favourite movie ? Are you a virgin ?

1/14/2016 11:58:03 PM


Be prepared for a rather lonely life.

1/14/2016 11:59:12 PM


But let me guess, your virginity is not important, right?
And what if you sleep with a woman then break up with her later on? Is she now doomed to a lonely life, since she is no longer a virgin?

1/15/2016 12:28:09 AM


Dude, you got issues!

1/15/2016 1:38:32 AM


How would Puffi react if a woman refused to date him because he's not a virgin?

1/15/2016 3:30:02 AM


@Malingspann - I think he can fairly safely not have to ever worry about that.

I pity Puffi.

1/15/2016 3:53:34 AM

Warren McIntosh

I think we need to have a serious talk about your feelings towards your mother, and what happened during your childhood.

1/15/2016 3:55:09 AM



The guy has psychological issues, but that's all.

1/15/2016 4:36:34 AM

Doubting Thomas

Get over it. If you truly love the girl you won't care about who she may have had sex with in the past. Of course you sound like an idiot who only loves her only for her vagina.

1/15/2016 6:54:56 AM

Mister Spak

This is OCD, not fundie.

1/15/2016 7:04:43 AM

Miles Gloriosus

My first thought on reading this is less fundie or sexism, and more genuine mental problem. I think this gentleman needs a good psychiatrist.

1/15/2016 7:28:38 AM

Women are not toys meant to sit waiting for you or some other man to take from their cellophane wrapping. You obviously have deep insecurities about having your sexual performance compared to other men's. Seek therapy.

1/15/2016 7:38:37 AM


Sweetie pie, your dick ain't that special.

1/15/2016 7:40:10 AM


And you're a virgin too, of course? No?
What if the virgin women don't want to allow something into their bodies that have been sullied elsewhere before?

1/15/2016 7:53:48 AM


Speaking from experience, when my cherry was popped by the school hotty when I was 16...:

...you never will.

I trust you never so much as touch yourself at night, eh Puff? Well unless you enjoy the thought of increasing your chances of dying from Prostate Cancer, then I suggest you unfuck yourself: literally. [/R. Lee Ermey]

As per the Anarchy sisters above, Virginity is overrated. Unless you & all your like-minded ilk are prepared to prove you're not the hypocrites you are and obey your own rule, then I suggest you get yourself laid.

1/15/2016 8:20:50 AM

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