Quote# 105776

What women really want from a husband is commitment. This is what they need to feel comfortable having children with the husband and raising a family. She wants commitment to be assured that the husband will always be there to support the family, especially when the wife is pregnant or with infants which put her in a weak position. So why are women so upset by male extramarital sex? Because modern women have been brainwashed to believe that male extramarital sex is an indication of lack of commitment. Historically you cannot find any instance of women complaining about casual extramarital sex by husbands before Paul started complaining about this in the New Testament. Of course women were jealous of mistresses throughout history, and this make sense since this is a real threat to her husband's commitment to her. It was Paul who introduced this terrible concept of male sexual fidelity to human culture. And even today, it is the degree of influence of Paul-based Christian culture on a society that determines the level of women's jealousy about male extramarital sex. Feminism is an extension of this culture and takes it to new extremes.

caamib, Reddit 42 Comments [1/13/2015 4:06:13 AM]
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Tricky Fox

"modern women have been brainwashed to believe that male extramarital sex is an indication of lack of commitment"
I WONDER WHY.

" Historically you cannot find any instance of women complaining about casual extramarital sex by husbands before Paul started complaining about this in the New Testament"
the buybull is not the final word on everything, dingus.

"Of course women were jealous of mistresses throughout history, and this make sense since this is a real threat to her husband's commitment to her"
because that's the case 99% of the time

"And even today, it is the degree of influence of Paul-based Christian culture on a society that determines the level of women's jealousy about male extramarital sex"
see above comment, the baibal is not the final word on everything, there are many more complex reasons.

"Feminism is an extension of this culture and takes it to new extremes."
it just ain't caamib without some senseless bashing shoehorned in.

1/13/2015 4:12:52 AM

whatever

"Of course women were jealous of mistresses throughout history, and this make sense since this is a real threat to her husband's commitment to her."

Making your wife jealous is not a good relationship move.

1/13/2015 4:14:43 AM



Oh, right. Silly little women, with their inferior intellects and uncontrollable emotions, had to be brainwashed into being outraged by cheating husbands. And when they are angry about infidelity, it's just because of silly little female jealousy.

And then there's reality, in which the very definition of committment in a relationship is that the two partners aren't screwing or forming intimate emotional relationships with other people. So, when a woman who has kept her part of the bargain has been betrayed, lied to, and humiliated by someone who literally signed a fucking contract agreeing not to do any of those things, she is pissed off, to put it mildly, with good reason.

Funny, I notice you don't say anything about men who are upset about unfaithful wives being brainwashed. I guess when your personal property screws around behind your back, that's a whole other thing, right?

1/13/2015 4:37:03 AM

LeProon

INB4 five pages of Mary defending himself and failing.

1/13/2015 4:50:37 AM

anothga

And here, we see caamib start with something true, quite surprisingly, only to quickly devolve into his usual BS, which is... not so surprising.

1/13/2015 5:19:05 AM

Mister Spak

Feminism is a christian plot?

What happened to feminism is a satanic atheist plot?

1/13/2015 5:49:04 AM

KittyKaboom

Of course, since you're constantly bitching about never getting any sex, apparently this is for you a moot point, no?

1/13/2015 5:54:06 AM

Snoogins

You would think he'd understand that, in a society where female sexuality is repressed and guarded, a man having more than one woman would decrease his already miniscule chances of getting laid. I'm not even going into the issues of trust, fidelity, and female autonomy because he won't understand it.

1/13/2015 6:47:12 AM

OHP

++"Historically you cannot find any instance of women complaining about casual extramarital sex by husbands before Paul started complaining about this in the New Testament. Of course women were jealous of mistresses throughout history"

Is there something about pressing the period key that actively causes fundies and sexists to immediately contradict themselves?

1/13/2015 7:22:13 AM

Doubting Thomas

modern women have been brainwashed to believe that male extramarital sex is an indication of lack of commitment.

Uhhh, yeah, it kind of is.

you cannot find any instance of women complaining about casual extramarital sex by husbands before Paul started complaining about this in the New Testament.

So something which was OK a couple thousand years ago should be the norm today?

1/13/2015 8:13:47 AM

Nomen Nescio

the sentences before that one that ends in a question mark, answer the question. then it goes rapidly downhill from there.

(honestly, now that effective contraception exists, i suppose it would be theoretically possible to decouple sexual fidelity from marital/emotional commitment. since it's possible and relatively easy to have sex with negligible practical risk of pregnancy or disease, and since at least some people are quite capable of having sex with no emotional investment, one COULD be emotionally faithful and committed to one's spouse while having inconsequential sex on the side. in theory. the actual practice doesn't work out that simply, of course; and even if it did, we'd have to rely on the very modern invention of effective contraception to make it so. never before, oh, the 1960's or thereabouts, was anything like it the case.)

1/13/2015 8:36:11 AM

Passerby

Well we can add commitment and extramarital to the ever-growing list of words caamib uses but clearly has no understanding of. I don't think the language barrier is responsible for the confusion, either.

1/13/2015 9:18:33 AM

birdboy2000

This is the incel crackpot, right? Why does he care if he can't even get one partner, let alone two?

1/13/2015 11:27:45 AM



@birdboy2000

It's that guy alright, but since he claimed to spend about 10 days over xmas/new year screwing a mentally ill woman in the hopes of getting her pregnant while taking precautions that she wouldn't know where to find him so that she can't come after him for child support... which given he's on welfare and she knows his name anyway isn't going to work well at all...

Well, he can't claim he's incel without being a lying shit... which he is, and he is.

1/13/2015 12:24:30 PM

pyro

@#1752458

Link, please?

1/13/2015 1:28:32 PM

Kadorhal

@#1752458

"while taking precautions that she wouldn't know where to find him so that she can't come after him for child support... which given he's on welfare and she knows his name anyway isn't going to work well at all..."

I guess the motherfucker subscribes to the Kent Hovind school of thought, where facts, science, the law, real-world history, and other people's testimony only count if they agree with him; logic, common sense, and the well-being of everyone else be damned.
It'd certainly explain why he continues believing women go for simple-minded, violent, lazy buffoons like himself instead of well-adjusted, kind men who are not literally parasites, despite his own total lack of success at everything involving interaction with another human being proving otherwise at every turn.


I mean, for someone who prides himself so much on being "smarter" than everyone he goes up against, he's pretty damn reluctant to actually put two and two together.

1/13/2015 1:55:36 PM

Alencon

"his terrible concept of male sexual fidelity to human culture"

I knew there was a reason I never liked Paul.

1/13/2015 3:45:51 PM

nazani14

"So why are women so upset by male extramarital sex?"
Maybe because they'd prefer to not have to use condoms for 45 years?

1/13/2015 3:51:25 PM

Old Viking

My wife always told me I should be committed.

1/13/2015 4:33:23 PM

DFM

Your first sentence is right on target: "What women really want from a husband is commitment." You started strong and then went off into Never-Never land. My answer to your question should be obvious, but evidently is beyond your mental capacity.

"So why are women so upset by male extramarital sex?"

Because it is a total violation of the idea of commitment. Commitment means exclusivity. Commitment means being there for HER and HER CHILDREN, not going out and screwing any female of the species you can get a hold of. A husband needs to be home with his family. He needs to spend time and show love to all of the members, not the least of which is his wife.

Capiche? Probably not.

1/13/2015 6:38:14 PM

Goomy pls

I think the concept of sexual fidelity is kind of wrongheaded, but for a different reason from yours. To me, it represents possessiveness and greed. This is one reason I disliked the "bae" trend so much--I do not want to control, or be controlled by, a hypothetical romantic or sexual partner. When fidelity is expected, anything can and will go wrong.

However, I don't think it's a problem of feminism. It's mostly a matter of misogyny whereby women are expected to stay "pure." Male infidelity is excused and rationalised, but female infidelity is considered on par with murder. It's a manufactured issue, sure, but the solution you propose will only make the current situation worse.

1/13/2015 9:06:28 PM

Kadorhal

@Goomy pls

Remember that the motherfucker is the same person thing which, on page 7 of this quote, outright admits that anyone who is perfectly fine and happy to be living without sex or romance is "sick" in his view, "regardless of their own comfort, happiness, and satisfaction with their life" in Louis' words. Him expecting to be able to fuck any women he wants, whenever he wants, without repercussion, but then making it out as a crime against humanity if any of those potential partners isn't a virgin or if the person he's supposed to be in an actual relationship with has a problem with it, wouldn't be too much of a stretch for how goddamned self-absorbed he is.

1/14/2015 1:30:30 AM



Well, fucking other women is a sign of both disrespect and yes, luck of committment, with the wife and the orher woman, of course( and don't forget STDs)

1/14/2015 4:47:42 AM

Musicalbookworm

I could be talked out of monogamy, as long as I have the dame freedom he does.

1/14/2015 9:02:43 AM

Sangfroid

If you think feminism is about men's inability to keep it in their pants, you really don't know what you're thinking.

1/14/2015 8:37:08 PM

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