If women are not obligated to give sex to their husbands, what are their marriage obligations?
The marriage deal used to be as follows :
Husband provides resources and protection
Wife provides children and homemaking
Nowadays husbands are still held under coercion to provide resources and protection, but wives do whatever the fuck they want. No wonder there's a crisis.
That redpill woman you're quoting knows what's up. If she can say no to sex, why wouldn't her husband say no to being her money faucet? What will she do once her fertile years are gone? Who will support her? The traditional marriage deal is actually skewed in favor of women in that husbands are kept under coercion until the wife dies although she usually has long outlasted her usefulness in the marriage deal. She's just being given stuff for providing nothing in return once she has produced and reared the all important children.
The current western marriage deal only exists as it is because the State is enforcing it to be that unbalanced. It uses reproductive sexual relationships as a wealth extraction tool. If you don't want to end up living with cats, time to get back to traditional marriage.
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Their marriage obligations are the same as their husbands'; to respect each other, work together in building a home, and keep each other at a similar financial level.
The marriage deal now is as follows:
Both partners provide resources, children and homemaking.
The law enforcement provides protection.
If the wife can't say no to sex, then the husband can't either. Get that wife of yours an orgasm, right now!
I thought you said wives provide homemaking. In what way can she "outlast her usefulness" in that aspect? The husband suddenly doesn't require a home?
Aren't the children all important to the wife too? After all, in your world it's she who spends time with them, not the husband.
I haven't had any fertile years, as I've been infertile so far, and being 45, that's probably not going to change any time soon.
Hubby and me support each other.
I know quite a few couples who are married and don't intend to have any children. They still have sexual relationships with each other (I presume).
Huh, that's funny; I'm happily married AND I live with cats. It was my husband who wanted us to have cats.
@Kadorhal
Eeyup....along with concepts like "50/50", "Consent", "Age of Consent", "Freedom/power/status not a zero-sum game", "Cooperation", "Compromise", "Non-violent solutions", etc.
Very strange people. Neolithic people probably had more sense than these guys.
So, marriage boils down to ready sex for the male. Yet whenever I read any anti-same sex marriage BS, it's all about how gay men just want sex and they could never understand the love and tenderness god gives a man and woman in love.
Except, apparently, when Gronk want sex, then Katy bar the door!
Sorry, but defence of rape, no matter what the circumstances, is just plain evil.
During a brief and ungratifying stint in a red-pill county, I have observed that it is exactly abusive men who rape their wives who are damned good at grabbing the kids, getting all the marital assets, getting their wives fired from every job and then having them thrown in jail for being unable to pay child support. No doubt that's your ideal society.
"That redpill woman you're quoting knows what's up."
- If you had told us the *truth*, *we* would have told you to take that red pill and *shove it up your ass*!!
If she can say no to sex, why wouldn't her husband say no to being her money faucet?
Who says he's her "money faucet"? This isn't 1955.
If women are not obligated to give sex to their husbands, what are their marriage obligations?
Nothing. Implying the existence of "marriage obligations," in any real sense, makes this a loaded question.
That's hilarious that you think that a woman who stays home and acts as 24 hour cook, housekeeper, laundress, nurse, chauffeur, and personal assistant is a valueless commodity with a "money faucet", even if she has no kids. Just go out and price those services, and see what it would cost you to hire someone to do even one of those jobs in your home for a month.
Do you think your employer is a "money faucet"? Same principle, but you get limited working hours and a guaranteed retirement, while she works til the day she dies, and may very well be dumped for a younger model and left with no retirement after all her years of hard work, when she starts to look a little older.
Because women never work or make their own money to support themselves riiight? People have a right to say no to sex, man or woman.
That's the problem with these chaivinistic idiots. If women want to work, they're told to "stay at home and be a mother". If they are a SAHM, they're "Useless and a spender/greedy". No way to win with these assholes. Sorry that trying to rely on myself and feel useful in a working society is such a sin!
A woman does not incur any specific legal obligations by getting married. Married couples are not liable for each other's debts unless both parties signed the agreement, or the debt carries a joint or several liability. Keep your accounts separate, ladies.
totorox... Here's a suggestion.
WASH!
Wash your whole body with soap and water.
That way you dont have that repulsive smell that makes women gag.
Then try wearing some decent clothes. Something clean and neat, without food stains down the front of the shirt, or poop stains on the back of the trousers. Make sure it actualy fits.
If you try to make yourself the sort of man that a woman wants to fuck... she will be interested in fucking you.
@D Laurier
Personally, I find the 'unwashed virgin' stereotype of misogyny incredibly dangerous. Many misogynists are sociopaths, and sociopaths who can function in civil society are VERY good at wearing masks, up until the moment they take them off to feed. The most cunning can eat with them on.
That's what truly scares me; that the people you see baring their rotten husk of a heart on the internet might brush past you on the street, deliver your mail, work with you, supervise you, even go out for a drink with you and might possibly try to pick you up...
The worst monsters in the world are the ones we don't see creeping up.
@Flanneur
Makes sense. As much as it's fun to make wisecracks about "The Cheetos-covered, neckbearded blob in his parent's basement" the fact is, many of these freaks are normal-looking folks who bathe, have jobs, etc.
Ted Bundy was a handsome guy who was studying to be an attorney, after all.
"The worst monsters in the world are the ones we don't see creeping up."
Unfortunately, true :(.
And luckily, this is satire. From their info, "/r/TheBluePill is a satire of /r/TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub. /r/TheRedPill is a subreddit for pick up artists who discuss ways of manipulating women."
Still sucks that some people in the 21st century feel this way though.
If women are not obligated to give sex to their husbands, what are their marriage obligations?
I would say that if she always refuses to have sex with her husband and they're both physically capable, the marriage is probably effectively dead and it's time for both of them to move on. If she had sex with him last night and the next night says "not tonight, hon, I'm not feeling that well", then her obligation is no greater than his obligation to respect the woman he loves and wait for a day or two. But in the long run, sexual compatibility is the number one predictor of marital success and if the couple have wildly different sexual needs - and it is very often the man who's falling down on the job - the outlook for the continued success of the marriage is poor.
I suspect that a lot of people who think a wife has an obligation to have sex whenever the husband wants it are horny single guys who haven't had sex for six months and can't imagine a guy being OK with waiting a day or two to get laid.
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